someone close to use loses someone special we are all one the search for
some words of comfort for sympathy. Not all of us finds those comforting
words easily. Actually, knowing what to say to someone may be one of the
toughest things to find. Getting some help in this area is not a
bad thing. Actually its a great thing as sometimes two brains are better
So here are some suggestions that you may find helpful when writing a
condolence card or sending a bereavement letter:
There is simply not enough words to tell you how sorry I am for your
loss. He/she was a good man and will be dearly missed.
This loss is so unfortunate and no body should have to endure the pain
you and your family are going through. May you feel our love and know we
are praying for you.
I canít even imagine what you are going through. But please know that I
am here for you. Even if its just to talk, I am a good listener.
We hope you know that you are not alone in this. There are many people
who cared for __________ and will miss him/her so much. They are all
wanting to be there for you to help support you through this traumatic
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time. Please
keep in mind we are here for you if you need us for anything.
We want you to know that ___________ memory will always be with you and
all the lives he/she touched. A memory like that can never be forgotten.
A grief like yours can be unbearable and we wish so much for you not to
have to endure this pain. Try and stay positive as this pain will pass
and you will be able to get on with your life with wonderful pain-free
memories of _______________.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your
___________. We are thinking of you and pray for your pain to sway
quickly so you can concentrate on the memories of such a wonderful
Suffering is a horrible thing, this is why we share comfort in knowing
that _________ is no longer suffering. Although now we see you are
suffering with grief. We know there is nothing we can say to bring
him/her back, but at least let it be your comfort that he/she is in a
good place now and is happy.
hope you have found at least one of these phrases to be helpful. May
they bring comfort to your friend, family member or co-worker. When
speaking directly to this person, just reading through these messages
may help you form your words better too. Feel free to use any of these
sentences for whatever use you may need them for.